No relationship is perfect. There are ups and downs, arguments, and falls out. But that doesn’t mean everything is going wrong. It’s important to keep things in perspective and know when you’re just going through a bit of a rough patch, versus when it’s time to leave a relationship.
1. You yearn for someone else
If you have a “backup” in place, whether it’s a fling whom you bang every so often, or simply someone with whom you share a strong emotional connection, you need to get out of your relationship right now.
Once you seek love and companionship elsewhere and prefer spending time with them, there’s no reason to stay with your current partner
2. The sex has dwindled
It’s normal for couples in long-term relationships to have less sex than brand-new couples. However, it’s not normal for you to only have sex occasionally and when you do, not enjoy it. That could be because you’re envisioning someone else banging you, or feeling nothing. After all,e the spark is gone.
Work on trying to bring the passion back, but if that doesn’t work, you have no option but to leave.
3. You’re unhappy more often than you’re happy
All relationships have ups and downs, but if you can’t remember the last time you were truly happy and satisfied, it’s a red flag that your relationship is unhealthy. Work on it or start packing your bags now.
4. Communication has stopped or has become impossible
The whole point of committing yourself to another person is that you have someone there with you through thick and thin. This is someone with whom you can share all of your problems, and someone you can share all your joy with.
If you find yourself bottling everything in, or if you’d rather share your feelings with others besides your partner, it’s a clear sign that you need to exit the relationship
5. You’re being abused
This should go without saying, but some people need to be prodded in the right direction. If you’re being mentally or physically abused, you need to walk out today.
Your partner should not get a second chance, because they lost every right to it the moment they hurt you.
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